This is a very real issue

I wish more people would engage real issues!

It seems like a tough subject to bring up without sounding like a pervert LOL

I know that PT/OT are trained in how to help with this specific issue. It's an important question. I'd honestly talk to you doctor about a referral to see what options might exist for you.

Didn't want to leave You with no one answering...but don't really have good answer to give. I will say that You have a couple unsatisfactory options. 1...direct energy into becoming someone that a partner would fall madly in love with. I know....not great option. 2. The brain is the most important sex organ....it will compensate if let it. Again...bad answer i know. 3. Some states legalized massage therapist that specialize in that...can travel to one. Not sure safe or good option, but be expensive. Am sure are much better options but best I can give You.